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September 24th, 2010


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01:57 pm - 5 Years of love
Today is the 5 year anniversary of when teaotter & I married amberite. Here's a link to a selection of pictures from that event. Marrying Alice was very different from marrying Becca. With the exception of a few impressively minor issues, my relationship with Becca has always been both consistently wonderful and utterly rock solid.

Things were considerably more difficult with Alice and there were a number of quite nasty fights between both Alice and I and between Becca and Alice in the first few years of our relationship. Polyamory isn't easy, everything the books and articles say about the necessity of communication is completely correct and also not emphasized enough. However, all of the major difficulties came early on in our relationship, and since Alice came back from China in June 2008, all problems have been minor and I can definitely say that we have a solid and loving relationship, a relationship that easily weathered 2 moves, including getting kicked out of one apartment, Alice being busier than she has ever been before, and the wretched economy. I'm impressed and very pleased at how well the three of us have managed our relationship. Tonight we're going out to dinner to celebrate at one of our favorite restaurants and I celebrate this anniversary with a mixture of joy and contentment. Once again, it is clear to me that love is something you do .
Current Mood: pleasedpleased

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From:andrewducker
Date:September 24th, 2010 09:38 pm (UTC)
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Good Lord. Five years!

I remember when that happened, it really doesn't seem that long ago!

Congratulations to all of you on your happiness.
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From:moominmuppet
Date:September 24th, 2010 09:45 pm (UTC)
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Likewise! Time flies!

Congratulations to all of you!
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From:beetiger
Date:September 24th, 2010 09:57 pm (UTC)
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Congratulations! I can't believe it has been five years. Time really does fly.
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From:seika
Date:September 24th, 2010 10:06 pm (UTC)
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Wow, congratulations! ^______^ Five years is a long time.
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From:bruceb
Date:September 24th, 2010 10:14 pm (UTC)
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Happy anniversary to all of youse!
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From:athenian_abroad
Date:September 24th, 2010 11:38 pm (UTC)
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I was sorry to miss this; best wishes, applicable retroactively! :)
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From:lupagreenwolf
Date:September 25th, 2010 12:41 am (UTC)
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Happy anniversary!!!!!!!!!!!!! *dances, tosses confetti made of pine needles*
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From:queen_in_autumn
Date:September 25th, 2010 12:45 am (UTC)
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Congratulations! Wishing you many more years of happiness together!
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From:china_shop
Date:September 25th, 2010 12:49 am (UTC)
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Happy anniversary! *balloooons*
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From:siderea
Date:September 25th, 2010 03:03 am (UTC)
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Happy anniversary!
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From:queerbychoice
Date:September 25th, 2010 03:18 am (UTC)
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Happy anniversary!
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From:bodlon
Date:September 26th, 2010 11:10 pm (UTC)
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This is fantastic. Congrats, you three!

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